Paloma Dakini

“When you work with love you bind yourself to yourself, and to one another and to God.” ~ Kahlil Gibran


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Services & Sessions


Sacred Relationship Coach

Emotional Wellness Therapist




Sacred Relationship: Sex, Love and Intimacy Coaching


  • Are you seeking to enhance connection and intimacy between you and your other relationships?
  • Are you looking to more effectively communicate your desires, fears and boundaries with others?
  • Do you feel disconnected, isolated, frustrated, depressed or lonely?
  • Are you looking for ways to spice up your sex & intimate life with your current or prospective Beloved?

We are at a time in history where we are in dire need for a return of the Divine masculine/feminine energies to awaken within us.  What does this mean?  It means that the feeling tone energy and our emotions have been blocked, suppressed and denied.  It means that our ability to create, to give & receive love, has been tainted, disguised, blurred and distracted.  This has led us to become human doers, constantly seeking ways to distract ourselves, while being confused and clouded in our minds in the process.

The Divine feminine within us is an allowing, receptive presence that gently guides and lovingly holds space.  She is the call for abundance, creativity, unity, connection, sensuality and love.  She is the call within us to heal our sexuality and live in our heart.  The Divine Masculine within us is the ability to see, to expand, to know & to hold space.  These energies are both within us.  They are meant to be balanced and their balance/imbalances are reflected in our relationships as a result.

In essence we are all mirrors for each other.

As a Sacred relationship: sex, love and intimacy coach, I am here to be a mirror, to support and guide you to emotionally-sexually-spiritually heal.  I am here to help you connect with your consciousness, to Self-discover, and to provide holistic support and guidance for you to live a sexually empowered, embodied life.  This means addressing relationship problems, such as sexual fears, haunting and/or negative thoughts, and tools to awaken the heart.  Whether you are a couple or are on a solo journey, I am a supportive and trusted guide.

As a coach, I support and guide you to:

Connect with the love inside of you and share that with others

Heal the blocks that prevent you from being more fully you

Cultivate more capacity for love

Create and manifest the kind of relationships that are supportive, healing and creative

Relax into your trusted self

Learn tools for self-healing and healing relationships


Below are specific issues I work with men, women and couples on:

Men, I can help you to:

  • Overcome shame about your desires
  • Work through sexual dysfunctions including Erectile Dysfunction, Premature Ejaculation and delayed ejaculation
  • Date consciously
  • Relax your anxieties around sex and being in a relationship
  • Face your insecurities around performance and love-ability
  • Become connected and comfortable with your own and others emotions
  • Practice lifelong romantic, passionate and/or dominant seduction of your partners
  • Bring confident erotic energy, sensual touch and intoxicating words
  • Understand women
  • Identify and communicate your own sexual needs
  • Clarify your relationship to porn and address porn and sex addiction
  • Heal from and embrace your sexuality after a history of sexual abuse

Women, I can help you to:

  • Find out the underlying causes of your low desire so you can reignite or discover your interest in sex
  • Overcome insecurities about desirability, love-ability
  • Address sexual dysfunction including anorgasmia or difficulty orgasming and pelvic pain
  • Gain clarity about your fantasies and desires
  • Learn to communicate clear boundaries and lower your chances of sexual violation and abuse
  • Ask for what you want lovingly and increase the likelihood of getting it
  • Deal with underlying pain and disappointment so you can shift unhealthy relationship patterns
  • Practice conscious, empowered dating
  • Experience the fulfillment of surrendering and receiving
  • Move beyond shame about sexual expression
  • Become familiar with your body and an expert on your own arousal
  • Heal from and embrace your sexuality after a history of sexual abuse

 Couples, I can help you:

  • Become creative and communicative to reignite the spark in your sex life
  • Move past your sexless marriage or low sex relationship to find a healthy sex life again
  • Learn more loving and connecting forms of communication and address long-term resentments
  • Heal from an affair
  • Bridge differences in desires
  • Heal from the effects of sexual dysfunction on the relationship





Wellness Therapy Sessions

  • Do you need to relax and unwind? 
  • Do you find yourself stressed out, unable to be present or even to think clearly?
  • Are you on a healing path, in need of nourishing, safe touch and mind-body-spiritual attunement?
  • Are you wanting to learn self-healing tools or are you seeking support in developing a self-care or spiritual practice?

Wellness therapy sessions are provided to support integration of life processes, to balance the nervous system, and relax the mind. Sessions are done ritualistically, in a sacred space. Wellness therapy sessions combine a variety of tools that may include a combination of talking, with bodywork, reiki, chakra balancing, toning, singing, yoga, meditation, guided imagery, jin-shin acupressure, breema and aromatherapy.  Sessions are provided to support you in developing a self-care practice as well as to simply relax and receive safe, healing touch and care.


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